Who knows? Your friend might adopt silence because he feels that’s the best tool for emotional stability. This helps you fight insomnia, relieves stress and stimulates thinking. Waive every negative feeling and approach your friend with a plain and accepting mind. Remember that forgiveness is an attribute of the strong. Wipe out all emotional attributes and try to be realistic as possible.įorgive yourself -you should also take a blame for the communication delay too. Realize that no one is perfectly created. Light words or actions may vex other people -we’re wired differently. It’ll be wrong to think you’ve done nothing wrong to deserve the unwarranted silence you’re getting from your friend. The aim is to prepare your mind towards the unknown and start up a conversation from an apt perspective.
As much as possible, trace back your conversation and action steps with the person to find out where you may have gone wrong. We’re still friends, in fact, bosom friends but a sweet clear line was drawn.ĭon’t over assume. An office spouse melted the ego with wonderful words, and I broke the silence.Įver since I had lived happily without him and my performance had tripled. I was mad at myself for weeks and my ego entrapped me to breaking the silence. It affected my performance at home and at work -I couldn’t sleep well nor participate fully in meetings, always lost at important points, I couldn’t communicate well in his presence and my boss could easily tell my performance is plummeting. We would have not less than a 30minutes conversation on the phone every day, visit repeatedly every weekend and share ideas and thoughts about work, family, and life generally.Īll of a sudden, he traveled for two weeks to finish up a project, and he never spoke to me again -he ignored my calls, didn’t return my chats and even denied me an invite to an important event. He’s excellent and hardworking we quickly got along because of the compatibility. How do you break that silence and connect with love?Ībout a year ago, a new employee joined our organization, my department to be precise. Once these factors are out, the number of sleepless adults drop. It is typically an inside-out experience.Īccording to the National Sleep Foundation, most adults have experience sleeplessness due to worry and nervousness. We see this in movies all the time.īut interestingly, breaking that silence is imperative for peak performance -when the mind is eased, you sleep well, eat healthily, and communicate better. When the communication bridge is broken, the trauma of unreasonable assumptions could lead to a drastic step -suicide in some cases. Is it possible to progress work when team members refuse to contribute –non-contribution is better when members don’t know what to say but worse when they know but refuse to talk. Imagine, how a settled mind can concentrate when he grudges with a colleague. None of these is possible if the mind is unrest. Silence comes with lots of advantages -it enhances creativity, heightens sensitivity, fosters listening, and host of others. Meanwhile, a simple “hi” spiced with a smile could make the day more productive. I believe you’ll want to throw in the second card to check if the first had breezed out unawares. Well, I doubt if you’ll be cool with that. How would you feel if you walk into your office on a Monday morning, say hi to your colleague, only for him to respond in silence? It depends on scenarios to either make or mar any relationship.įew people love the gold in silence but indifferent in their judgments when they appear at the receiving end. In relationships, silence always occupies the position of relativity. Negativity is the thin line that lies between silence as golden and as a mere glittering abstraction. Silence could be glittered, not always golden.
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